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Restoring the Urban Woman with God’s truth for everyday life.

Are You Complaining to Death
Theology, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver Theology, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver

Are You Complaining to Death

Are you complaining to death? I don’t mean a death like the Children of Israel experience. I’m speaking of an inner death–the death of your joy, your peace, and your patience. If we aren’t careful, like the children of Israel we can find ourselves buried in the place of our complaining.  

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Joy in the Storm
Marriage, Lifestyle, Mental Tesheba Oliver Marriage, Lifestyle, Mental Tesheba Oliver

Joy in the Storm

“‘We are not ok.’ Something I never wanted to say out loud but laying on my bed in tears, the words have found me and hold me in a tight grip. “

Do we find joy in our storms? Be encouraged by Sharon as she candidly tells of what it looks like to hold onto joy while in the storms of life.

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Survive + Thrive: Days at Home with Kids
Family, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver Family, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver

Survive + Thrive: Days at Home with Kids

Have you ever heard the saying “The days are long but the years are short.” as it pertains to child rearing? I know many of us have been experiencing long days with our kiddos at home. The tasks of educating, training, keeping our homes and working has escalated, but there is still a village available to help you through these times. 

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Finding Faith in the Middle of COVID-19
Discipleship, God, Health, Lifestyle, Formation Tesheba Oliver Discipleship, God, Health, Lifestyle, Formation Tesheba Oliver

Finding Faith in the Middle of COVID-19

I’m sitting in my living room sipping a cup of warm tea while my two young boys enjoy an afternoon show and my eight-month-old snoozes calmly for her second nap of the day. There is a sense of peace within the walls of our home, but as of a week and a half ago, we’re living in the jolting reality of COVID-19.

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Because you Were Bought with a Price: Biblical Stewardship of our Health
Discipleship, Lifestyle, God, Womanhood Tesheba Oliver Discipleship, Lifestyle, God, Womanhood Tesheba Oliver

Because you Were Bought with a Price: Biblical Stewardship of our Health

Last year, I had a health scare. Praise the Lord that it was not as bad as it could have been, especially since, as much as I hate to admit, I “sort of” contributed to it. I have a chronic hormonal imbalance that requires me to be extremely diligent about my eating habits. However, I had not been diligent

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New Year, Same God
God, Theology, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver God, Theology, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver

New Year, Same God

It's a new year and resolve is high. Motivation is running rampant in the gym and across the nation. Some people are prancing into the new year thanking God for the lessons learned and victories won; new jobs, new baby, weight loss. Others, however, are reluctant to cross the threshold into 2020 without their dearly departed loved ones.

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A Benjamin Button Revolution: Becoming More Childlike in Christ
Discipleship, Family, Parenting, God, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver Discipleship, Family, Parenting, God, Lifestyle Tesheba Oliver

A Benjamin Button Revolution: Becoming More Childlike in Christ

In the movie Benjamin Button, starring Brad Pitt, Benjamin is born as a very old man. Over the years, while everyone else is growing older, he grows younger until he becomes and infant again. I too must revert back to a time when I simply relished in being the child and in Him being the Father. For so long, I believed that God was insisting on my “#adulting” my faith.

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Rejection Ain’t Really Rejection
Lifestyle, God Tesheba Oliver Lifestyle, God Tesheba Oliver

Rejection Ain’t Really Rejection

In spite of the heart-break, God was and continues to be soooo good and I praise Him for that rejection. Why? Because rejection, I believe, is not necessarily always rejection. And I have learned so much through this process that I wouldn’t have been able to grasp if things had worked out between the two of us.

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