The Urban Christian Woman Blog

Restoring the Urban Woman with God’s truth for everyday life.

‘Til He Appeared
Tesheba Oliver Tesheba Oliver

‘Til He Appeared

With the arrival of Jesus, the world felt its worth. This declaration is for you. His coming was not just for the world then, his coming was for you. And in that arrival, you are presented with a clear picture of your worth. Every Christmas scent or scene, every gathering to celebrate and every quiet moment in front of a Christmas tree, every sparkle of a Christmas light or tune that gets stuck in your head; these all point to something more.

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Grace In Gathering
Tesheba Oliver Tesheba Oliver

Grace In Gathering

Today I sat in the top row of an old theater and watched two separate friends baptize their sons in a horse trough. Tears ran down my cheeks, soaking my mask, as these men, my pastors, spoke the words "trusting in the confession of your faith, I baptize you in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit."

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Wait Well
Tesheba Oliver Tesheba Oliver

Wait Well

I was in the school pickup line for 20 minutes. I was thinking, wow this is a long line, I could be doing something else. I don't like to wait in long lines at the store, at the gas station, or anywhere. Perhaps my lack of patience gets the best of me. Sometimes waiting is inevitable, so how do I wait well? What is the point of my waiting? What is it that God is growing in me during this lapse in time?

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Women of Repair
Tesheba Oliver Tesheba Oliver

Women of Repair

It’s easy for me to read that verse and think about “ruins” in places like England or the Middle East - locations where kingdoms and old structures rose and fell hundreds and even thousands of years ago. But what does it mean to examine the ruins, both physically and metaphorically, right where we live?

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The Grave of Good Friday: Ezra’s Example of Repentance
Tesheba Oliver Tesheba Oliver

The Grave of Good Friday: Ezra’s Example of Repentance

As the days warm and flowers bloom, it’s so easy for us as Christian women to jump right into the celebration of Christ’s resurrection on Easter Sunday. This year especially, we are eager for the fulfilled promise of new life. But in order to more fully understand the wonder of the Resurrection, we must again recognize why Christ went to the grave at all.

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